Stop being taken for granted and treated like a doormat! It is about time you stood up for yourself and confronted the situation. If you feel that you are being lied to and that your partner is cheating on you but want to know for certain that you are being taken for a ride there are ways to be sure!
A lying cheat is bound to make mistakes. Watch for them. If your lover has been lying all these months, then his/her stories are bound to contradict each other. Names of persons, places and events are bound to be misquoted at one time or the other. Keep a record of what your lover/spouse has told you and you can catch him/her out when he/she makes a mistake!
Keep checking his/her mails, messages and call history on his/her phone. Sooner or later your partner is bound to forget to delete something that will tell you that he/she is cheating on you.
Bank statements will let you know if your spouse has been lying about certain amounts that were withdrawn. If you confront your spouse about it then most probably he/she will not be able to give you any concrete proof about where the money was spent.
Keeping in touch with your friends and acquaintances with whom you can double check whether your spouse has been where he/she said he/she was, is a good way of keeping tabs on him/her. Your spouse will keep flinging names at you carelessly to try and keep you in the dark. Call up those friends and check if your spouse was lying.
Keeping a constant look-out for slip-ups on the part of your spouse is going to take a toll on you. There is no way your spouse is going to keep up his/her cheating without you finding out all about it. You can put a stop to this by asking your spouse to come clean and have an honest talk with you!
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